You Told Me So

     I commented on a friend's FaceBook post last week about the Time magazine cover of a breastfeeding 4 year old.  She disliked the cover, I liked it.  I didn't like the caption, but I feel like it's important to have the image out there.  As a mom tandem breastfeeding a 2  YO and a 3 1/2 YO, it's kind of like the issue is coming out of the closet.  There is no bad press, as they say.
     My friend's comment was that it was a negative thing, because she was imagining the men at the photo shoot and the men working at Time magazine in sort of a Beavis & Butthead chuckle over the whole thing.  "Heh heh.  Boobies.  Heh heh." 
     Yesterday I was watching one of my favorite entertainers and most respected people in terms of human rights, kindness, and even coolness.  Ellen Degeneres.  One of the opening spots in the show was a spoof of sorts of this cover.  They showed the cover to several of Ellen's staff members, most of whom kind of recoiled in a "yuck" kind of way.  The last person to whom they showed the cover was a male, age 50-ish.  He asked "Can I keep it?" in a lewd sort of way.  I couldn't believe it.  Almost verbatim what my friend predicted / imagined.
     Of all people, Ellen Degeneres.  Champion of anti-bullying and same sex couples.  I believe in my heart that it is an ignorance thing and once Ellen hears from folks like me and gains a better understanding she will apologize for the lack of thought that went into that spot.  I sent an email to Ellen last night, asking her how she would feel if a male were depicted in the same way when shown a picture of two women embracing or kissing.  Could be Ellen and Porsche.  
     I hope the email makes it to Ellen, I really really hope it does.  And I hope that my email was not the only one.  In any case, I stand by my assertion that the magazine cover is a good thing.  I recently talked to a mom who was breastfeeding in front of a 10-12 year old cousin, who didn't even know what breastfeeding was.  This is our world we live in.  The cover and certainly the caption were not perfect, but if it opens up discussion and gets the topic out there, it's a good thing.
     Sending light and love,  Jen

Jenuinely Happy

     The past few days and weeks have been stressful for me because husband (let's call him Mr. T) working many extra hours and some unresolved business issues (let's call them BH) back in Virginia.   Yet I'm profoundly happy.  Happy with our new city, happy in our house and most of all happy with my beautiful family.  I've been doing some soul searching as a result of the aforementioned stresses and reminding myself that I can do pretty much anything I put my mind to.
     Everything always works out.  Such an obvious thought but I must remind myself of it daily.  Just how it works out, though, is up to me.  In August 2010 when I joined Weight Watchers it was Step 1 of me taking control of my life and how things "work out".  I didn't want to be unhealthy and pass along unhealthy habits to my kids.  Nearly 2 years later I feel pretty good about my progress and even more passionate about health - my own, my family, and our nation.  You'll hear me talk about this over and over.  I am so excited Mrs. Obama has taken on the issue and there is so much to be done. 
     So now I'm on to Step 2 of taking control of my life:  figuring out what makes me happy.  Specifically.  Finding that which I love doing and somehow finding a way to get paid for it.  I'm currently working on making my living environment a place that I love and journaling.  Action and reflection.  Amazing how much motivation I get from both.  The more I do, the more I'm able to do.  
     Sending Light and Love,  Jen